Reduce Your Stress During Holidays
Holidays can be a stressful time. Some people are stressed out from the sheer volume of things that need to be done, such as shopping, baking, and decorating. For others, events with their family can cause great stress. Regardless of what creates stress for you, take some time for yourself to relax, rejuvenate, and rest so you can enjoy the holiday.
If you’re worried about having too much to do and not enough time to get it done, sit down and make out a to-do list. Include your spouse and children in the holiday planning process, and try to delegate chores to everyone to help make things simpler and free up your time.
Even the youngest of children can do a lot to help mommy and daddy for the holiday including picking up their room and behaving. Older children and teenagers are able to do quite a bit more. If you have a teenager of driving age in your household, take advantage and have him or her make deliveries or run errands for you.
Be realistic in your planning. If you know it generally takes you most of the day to do your decorating, don’t try to cram it all into a morning or afternoon session. And most importantly, don’t over schedule yourself and try to do too much in one day. Schedule in time to read a book, take a hot bath, or get to bed early.
If spending time with members of your extended family creates stress for you, consider bowing out of the festivities. After all, holidays are supposed to be peaceful and joyous. It’s highly likely that if you’re family is in turmoil the rest of the year that will be the case during the holiday as well. Try to make alternate plans with members of your support system such as friends or other family.
If you must attend, rely on this strong support system to get you through, and if things become tense, call it a night and come home early. There’s no need to tolerate an intolerable situation that will cause your stress levels to skyrocket. As an alternative plan, consider donating your time to a local soup kitchen, homeless shelter or nursing home, all who would appreciate a helping hand and a supportive ear during the holiday.
Most importantly, listen to your body. If you begin feeling the signs of stress such as headaches and body aches, anxiety and sleeplessness, that’s your cue to slow down and take things easier. Cut back on activities, ask for help with projects or chores, and take some time out for some deep breathing exercises and walking.
If you take care of yourself, you’ll be able to take care of the things on your list, your family and your holiday as well.
Enjoy the memories,